WHAT IS BOUDOIR PHOTOGRAPHY?
Well it actually depends on the photographer you ask, but as a majority we think that most of us would say that boudoir photography is sexy, private photos that a woman takes to celebrate her unique beauty, style and personality. Boudoir photography can make for a fabulous gift for a hubby, but more than that it is a wonderful confidence boosting experience for the woman taking the boudoir photos. In fact we hear that many woman get multiple boudoir photo shoots in their lifetime as a treat to themselves. Out with a relaxing day at the spa and in with an energizing, self-awakening experience.

While boudoir photography can have a risque association, we actually like to think of it as a way to combat society’s negative view on beauty, which can often be described as featuring only thin/tall women on magazine covers as the official “beautiful.” The truth is that every woman is beautiful in her own unique way, and we feel a photo shoot better helps her harness that and celebrate it for herself. Boudoir photos are typically taken in lingerie, but don’t have to be. Many woman take the sexy photos in a pretty dress or cute outfit. And on the other hand, many boudoir photographers out there photograph fine art nudes. The goal is to find a boudoir photographer with a style you love, then together you and your photographer can customize your experience.

We invite you to start the search for your photographer and to take a look at all the possibilities in your area. Keep in mind that we aren’t wholly endorsing any of the photographers on our site. They have been selected because they had a strong portfolio and we leave the discernment on professionalism and comfort level up to you. The best way to know if you will be comfy with a photographer is to call them and chat over the phone. And once at your shoot, trust their expertise to make you look amazing and just have fun with it!

WHAT SHOULD I EXPECT FROM MY BOUDOIR SHOOT?
If you have decided that you would like to have a boudoir photography session, you will probably have plenty of questions. One of the most frequently asked questions we hear when it comes to boudoir photography is: “What should I expect from my photo shoot?”  and “How should I prepare for my boudoir session?”

While every boudoir photographer is unique, and each boudoir photography studio offers different services, in general, here are some helpful hints to show you how to prepare for your boudoir shoot. Once you have found your perfect boudoir photographer, you will no doubt be a little nervous about your photo shoot. Most women feel a little trepidation when they are thinking about their boudoir session, because this is something that is completely out of their comfort zone.

We can not speak on behalf of all boudoir photographers and say what your session WILL be like but here are some expectations that should be met and we suggest you pick your boudoir photographer accordingly.

You have the right to expect:
– Your photographer will professionally and respectfully coach you through your poses and session in a comfortable and private environment.
– You will be nervous but these nerves will subside with every moment during your session (the longer your session, the better because you will probably get better at posing and expression with every minute that passes).
– That your photographer will choose the poses that will flatter your body type, you may not love EVERY shot, but the goal is to find a reasonable amount of your boudoir shots that you absolutely love.
– That the shoot will remain at YOUR comfort level. Boudoir does not need to mean lingerie shots and your photographer will be able to make you look sexy in even a pretty dress or a robe.  If you do want nudity you should check with you photographer to see that they offer that before the shoot.
– That you photos will remain private unless you sign a model release.
– That you will have the time of your life!

What should I BRING to my boudoir photo session?
The Boudoir Divas suggest that you bring a few of your favorite lingerie outfits. Some of the most flattering outfits are: a simple black corset or a babydoll. We also suggest boy short undies, high heels and a killer push up bra at the very least.

What should I wear for my boudoir shoot?
When it comes to your boudoir photo shoot, there are limitless options for your clothing and outfit choices. Many women like to wear sexy, provocative lingerie such as corsets, teddies, garters and fishnet stockings. Above all, you should wear something that you feel comfortable in! If you are looking for sexy lingerie, we suggest looking at some of our favorite lingerie retailers, such as: Victoria’s Secret, Fredrick’s of Hollywood, or Lingerie Diva. There are also several high-fashion lingerie designers, such as: Agent Provocateur and La Perla.  It’s also helpful to note that it is not necessary to wear lingerie for your boudoir session. A lot of women wear sexy, edgy outfits that resemble an outfit that would be styled for a fashion editorial spread in a magazine like Vogue or W Magazine.

Will my photographer have any lingerie available for me to use?
Ask your photographer to see whether they will have any clothing or lingerie options available for you to use for your boudoir shoot. Some professional photographers like to have a small selection on lingerie outfits available, however, not all boudoir photographers will have outfits, so be sure to check with your photographer before your session.

What about hair and makeup?
Unless you know how to do camera-ready make-up on yourself, then professional make-up for your boudoir shoot is a must! Your photographer probably has a hair and make-up artist that they like to work with, ask for some suggestions.

I’m not very sexy; will my photographer help me with posing and expression?
If you find a professional boudoir photographer with a lot of experience shooting boudoir sessions, you should be able to rest easy knowing that your photographer will help you with posing and expression. Marissa Boucher of the Boudoir Divas states: ” It is the photographer’s job to coach the client and make her look her absolute best. The client shouldn’t have to worry about that factor at all, they should be able to put all the trust in the photographer and just enjoy the experience.” 

How much skin will I be showing in my boudoir photo shoot?
This should be up to you! As the client, you ought to have full control over how much skin you do (or do not) want to show off in your boudoir shoot. Maxim, more of a men’s magazine look or Victoria’s Secret, more cute, with a bra and panty set covering all areas, or Playboy look, with the end result showing more skin in a provocative, sexy photo shoot. Some boudoir photographers will not photograph nudes, while there are several photographers who specialize specifically in fine art nudes. There is also the Pin-Up style of photography, which beckons to an era from the 1950s.

Where will my boudoir photos be taken?
In studio or on-location. Also many photographers choose to shoot in a hotel. Hotel marathons are the newest trend with boudoir photographers.

Should I go tanning before my photography session?
Most boudoir photographers will discourage fake tanning or spray tanning before a boudoir photo shoot. We have seen far too many tanning debacles in our boudoir career. Not to mention that with some of the lighting and filters that photographers use can make the tan look extremely orange in the photos.

Can I get a little airbrushing on my final photos?
Every photographer has a different approach to airbrushing photographs, and each boudoir photographer may offer different airbrushing services. Be sure to check with your individual photographer to find out his or her policy regarding airbrushing and retouching boudoir photos. While you will want to find out what their specific policy is, as a majority most boudoir photographers do airbrush the purchased selections.

I don’t want my photos to end up online; will my photographer be posting these photos on their website or blog?
If you have hired a professional boudoir photographer, they should not use your images online or on their blog unless you have signed a model release.

What if I want to come in with a friend?
Some boudoir photographers will allow you to bring a friend with you to your shoot. Be sure you ask your photographer to find our their policies. You might also want to ask your photographer if they offer boudoir parties.

*NOTE: Please check with your individual boudoir photographer before your photo shoot to see if they have any specific tips for you. This list of boudoir tips is not exhaustive, but rather a commentary to help you get started thinking about your boudoir shoot!

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